Is this program for me?

Do you know if this program is for me? I have had over 30 messages asking this question this morning. So, I decided to answer it here.

First, this isn't a healing program. To heal the wounds that we have from being raised in unhealthy family systems, I suggest the work of Liana Shanti. Her mother wound, father wound, and healing from narcissism are core wound healing programs. There is no need for me or anyone else to duplicate what thousands of us know works.

This program can be another tool if you're still healing these core wounds, but it won't help you heal. This program will give you tools and information on how to move forward. This program will guide you if you're uncertain how to cut ties with your family, relationships, or adult children.

In my own experience and in guiding others, having tools that will show you what I and many others have done to move on with our lives safely, setting boundaries and holding to them, beginning to trust our decision making, and becoming healthy, independent adults is important. It is the biggest step to freedom, sovereignty, and having the life you've always dreamed of. Some of you may want to walk away from birth families, others from relationships you're in, and for some of you, it will be both. Some may want the information for down the road, and others may want guidance on setting boundaries without being drawn in. If that aligns with you, then this program will offer guidance on doing whatever works best for you now.

As I learned from Liana many years ago, leaving the family systems we were engrained in, knowing what family cult means, and moving on is no joke. The system/cult does not want us to leave, and they will pull out all the stops, from verbal threats to physical threats to attacks on social media, threats to take your children, financial threats, and in some cases, threats to people you care about. I have experienced most of these and have guided others who have experienced them all. It takes courage to leave, and this program gives practical tools to do that.