The time has come for those challenged daily to speak up, make decisions, and set healthy boundaries to END their ties to families that act more like a cult than a healthy family system.
Family Cult Recovery
A 4 week program with Kaia Alline
Are you the “black sheep” in your family, but feel obligated to participate in family activities?
Do you feel judged by your family for your lifestyle or career choices? Are you under a microscope with how you choose to live your life?
Have you tried distancing yourself from your family or wanted to make choices or decisions that differ from them?
Are you ready to be fully independent from your family but unsure how?
Do you feel the time is now, or you will be stuck forever?
If this sounds like you, Family Cult Recovery is the program to change the ties that bind you.
In this program, you will gain insight, tools, strategies, and resources to set yourself free and begin your journey to independence.
What would it feel like to be an independent adult, living the life you co-create and flourish in?
Achieve the life you deserve and understand you are much more than you’ve ever been told.
Dysfunctional families are everywhere
From psychology, family systems are where one learns there is a hierarchy. Parents are at the top, and children are underneath. From the moment we are born, we are in a system.
All of our power is taken away if our parents are bought into the teachings of family systems theory. Instead of everyone being heard and having a voice, children are not given a choice. They are psychologically indoctrinated into the system of childrearing. The indoctrination continues when we are given names, a culture, religion, language, school, and so much more. This is the beginning of dysfunction. Very few ever escape.
Is this how you want adulthood to be? Did you pick a spouse or partner in the same way your family did? Is this how you are raising your children?
Do you want a different way of being?
If you do, it is time to step out of the family cult you were born into.
What would that look like?
Family cult recovery would be you learning how to be independent in all areas of your life.
Family cult recovery happens when you can speak your truth and follow through no matter what anyone else believes.
Family cult recovery would be you having solid boundaries and sticking to them.
Family cult recovery is you and your children living a life where their needs are being met 24 hours a day, and they feel protected in every aspect of their lives.
Family cult recovery is you taking appropriate action to have and live the life you deserve.
Through the years, I was in and then worked with so many people who have lived in family cults believing it was the standard way to live.
It’s not.
We all deserve to experience a healthy way of being, from independence, to family life, to in the world.
In the four-week Family Cult Recovery program, I will show you that everyone has the power to change and live free from family dysfunction. Whether that is alcoholism, narcissism, control, or some other traumatic experience, you deserve to have the tools and strategies to guide you to make a change, be empowered, and ultimately turn your life around.
Having been a counselor for many years, most of the teachings I learned were limited. In learning how to be fully independent, sovereign, and in control of my life after leaving the family cult I was born into, I will share how you can do this, too.
“Trust is a basic interpersonal emotion necessary for healthy relationships.”
- Eric Erickson
In family cults, there is no trust.
We grow up with subtle or intense forms of control, which turns into abusive patterns and relationships. With the family, the abuse may be between partners, between parents and children, or any combination of family or extended family members. This harm continues when we leave the family home, usually to pick our partner with similar traits.
For many in a family cult, children become dependent on those in charge. Dysfunctional families make the children weak and powerless. The child never learns autonomy. Critical thinking, identity, and dignity are suppressed or ignored. Once an adult, if the child decides to leave, dependence may still show up instead of healthy integration with others outside of what they were exposed to in the family cult.
Children who grow up in family cults seldom have any boundaries and have no idea how to hold others accountable. The same goes for rules. When one grows up in a family cult, they live by rigid rules as they have been taught how to interact in the system and the world. Growing up with this rigidity can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself and your inner world. Most of these families have specific gender-defined roles, too. In most families, the girls are caretakers, and the boys protectors. The father then provides, and then mother raises the children. The more fixed the roles in the family cult, the less freedom one has. These roles limit one from developing their personality and natural gifts.
What you will learn in the 4-Week Family Cult Recovery Program:
Week 1:
An overview of family systems vs. family cults
Types of dysfunctional families
Similarities to addictions
Week 2:
Effects on the brain from childhood trauma
Boundaries, codependency, enmeshment, and rescuing
Tools and strategies to set boundaries, break free from codependency, enmeshment, and rescuing and how to become independent
Week 3:
Steps to take action:
Understanding what narcissism is and the different types of narcissism
How Trauma and PTSD affect our ability to see the layers of family cults
How to determine safety and tools to ensure you and your children if you have them are safe
The importance of awareness and facing conflict
Week 4:
How do you know when to walk away?
Information to help you decide what is best for you
The use of language and documentation?
Systems and documents that are needed
Find the right solution for you
What you will receive when you purchase Family Cult Recovery:
Four modules which are audio files on-demand which can be listened to at any time.
An e-book that will list all of the resources and strategies shared.
Frequently asked questions can be found here
Cost: $149.00
About the Facilitator
Hi everyone, I am pleased you are here.
I am Kaia Alline, and I will be the facilitator of Family Cult Recovery.
For years, I believed that I grew up in a family that was healthy for the most part. Both of my parents lived in our home with my brother, three sisters, and myself. I had a large extended family, and we saw each other often. On the outside, life looked "normal."
Fast forward to 2015 when my teacher Liana Shanti began offering her spiritual work. In her programs and sessions with her, I began to see the layers of false conditioning, limiting beliefs, and values that came from my family but no longer served me.
Ironically, I hold master's and doctorate degrees in clinical mental health counseling and counselor education and supervision via schooling. Yet, I never fully considered how similar our family systems are to cults. It was time for me to heal all that was my family and figure out who I was, where I came from, and why I was here. I have been a guide and mentor to others wanting the same answers in healing. This program is a culmination of my education, experiences, teachings from Liana, and tools and strategies I have shared with others to guide them to making the best choices for themselves when it comes to understanding family cults and how to heal for themselves.
For more information on my work and other programs, or to schedule a personal session, see www.kaiaalline.com