DIVORCE COACHING
I can help to ease the overwhelm, save energy for where it’s truly needed, address the tender emotional state, and make aligned decisions with clarity.
Hello, I am Kaia Alline, and welcome to my website.
This page is for those seeking guidance for separation, divorce, parenting, or your relationship.
I am a Divorce Coach. My specialties are empowerment of women, divorce (high-conflict/narcissistic), relationships, navigating the court system, understanding family cults, and putting safety first. I have lived experiences of going through my own divorce. I am also a retired mental health therapist and current empowerment and wellness coach. I have experience in divorce, the endings of long-term relationships, grief and loss, safety plans, parenting plans, co-parenting, childhood development, and the effects on children. I also have an understanding of toxic/narcissistic partners and families.
How do you know you need a Divorce Coach?
If you find that every day is becoming more challenging as you wonder if staying in your relationship is best for you and your children if you have them.
Your mind is constantly in motion, asking so many questions: What will my life look like if I get a divorce? How will I survive sharing my kids? Where will I live? How do I support myself? How angry is he going to be? What about my pension? Are lawyers necessary? Is separation better? Can we resolve this?
Then the fears begin to settle in. Your mind goes to all the costs of a divorce, the changes in how you live, and what you need to do?
A great first step is reaching out to someone with experience guiding others through a divorce or ending relationships.
Why a divorce coach?
Divorce coaching helps to ease the overwhelm, save energy for where it’s truly needed, address the tender emotional state, and make aligned decisions with clarity
Offerings
First Steps
Book a first-step session so we can lay out your first steps in this process. Developing a plan before doing anything will save you time, energy, and money, not to mention ease your mind. This session will address your situation and emotional health, as self-care is essential.
55-minute session $160
General Session
This session is for when you have questions or need guidance after the divorce and separation have begun. In this 55-minute session, you will bring a list of questions, challenges, or concerns, and we will address and lay out steps for you to achieve the desired results and put you at ease.
55-minute session $160
Gold Session
This package includes ongoing one-on-one text support as you move through the long-term relationship/separation/divorce process and 2 monthly 55-minute phone calls.
This package is perfect for giving you the most support and guidance as you walk through the process of ending your relationship or divorce.
With ongoing support, you can ask questions about communication, boundaries, the many emotions you are experiencing daily, and how to begin rebuilding your life. It's also a great time to review your safety plan, discuss how your parenting plan is and is not working, and discuss communication patterns and experiences with psychologists, therapists, and the co-parenting app with your attorney or other court personnel.
An area that many clients are challenged by is processing different emotions each day, patterns being repeated, grief, and self-care. These are areas of expertise I have. I can listen, see the stories you may be stuck in, and offer steps and guidance to become aware and begin making changes to do things differently.
Cost $350 monthly
**I am not an attorney and do not provide legal advice. It is important to find a licensed attorney for all legal guidance. I provide education, guidance, support, and my own experience in ending a long-term relationship/divorce.
Contact me at Kaia@kaiaalline.com
About the Facilitator
Hi everyone, I am pleased you are here.
I am Kaia Alline, and will be the facilitator of all Family Cult Recovery programs.
For years, I believed that I grew up in a family that was healthy for the most part. Both of my parents lived in our home with my brother, three sisters, and myself. I had a large extended family, and we saw each other often. On the outside, life looked "normal."
Fast forward to 2015 when my teacher Liana Shanti began offering her spiritual work. In her programs and sessions with her, I began to see the layers of false conditioning, limiting beliefs, and values that came from my family but no longer served me.
Ironically, I hold master’s and doctorate degrees in clinical mental health counseling and counselor education and supervision. Yet, I never fully considered how similar our family systems are to cults. It was time for me to heal all that was my family and figure out who I was, where I came from, and why I was here. I have been a guide and mentor to others wanting the same answers in healing. This program is a culmination of my education, experiences, teachings from Liana, and tools and strategies I have shared with others to guide them to make the best choices regarding understanding family cults and how to heal for them.
For more information on my work and other programs, or to schedule a personal session, see www.kaiaalline.com